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jueves, 26 de junio de 2025

Let your mind move. Francis Sanzano




When we let our bodies do what they were was designed to do — process stimuli — they become whole. Some modern Buddhist practice has not just made an enemy of stimuli, talking about it in the same breath of distraction, but has often lost sight of the intelligence of the body. This is likely due to the distracting nature of the prominent stimuli of our time made up of screens, pings, and notifications. We don’t necessarily need less of stimuli, but instead a higher quality of it.

The original stimuli of our sense organs was the wild world, so we could consider nature a higher quality source. Higher quality doesn’t mean better in absolute terms, but more expeditious for the task. Skillful means, we could say — for the same reason monks for thousands of years value silence when meditating. Silence is skillful.

The obvious question is: What, exactly, can we learn from the body? But really the question should be: How can the body help us unlearn? Buddhist practice can be considered subtractive rather than additive. The intelligence of the body isn’t leveraged for another intelligence. Rather, it is autotelic, from the Greek: “having an end in itself,” to which I’m reminded of one of my favorite quotes by Shunryu Suzuki Roshi: “We do not exist for the sake of something else.” In other words, all forms of mind exist for their own sake when they are present and awake in their environment. The ear, to hear. Skin, to touch. Ear-mind. Skin-mind.

Birdsong, wind (perhaps in the whistle of a coke bottle), and the sound of water are privileged pathways into our bodies. So are the blue-greens hues of nature. We can receive these stimuli deeper than others and move toward them as an animal to safety. Study after study proves nature is good for our mental health and well-being, but we shouldn’t leverage the wild only to buttress our mental health. To be with the wild can be enough. Body practice trains our senses, breathes life into them, and allows mind to enter them.

When your senses awaken, a strange thing happens — joy appears. This joy is not always born because something is beautiful or harmonious, as our senses were also developed to locate the noxious or detect a predator. Rather, joy can be the proverbial fruit of being awake. “Even when the Tathāgata eats the coarsest food, it tastes better than any celestial ambrosia,” reads the Mahāratnakūta Sutra. When it all turns into ambrosia, it’s miraculous, but also mundane. Basic. Archaic.

That day, on the edge of Stagecoach Reservoir, I unlearned something. A body can go about creating the world, achieving this and that, making music, but it also has the ability to be played, to become a musical instrument. We become the Coke bottle. The music being played might be discordant at first, but in time, as with sitting practice, ambrosia emerges.

martes, 10 de junio de 2025

How to free yourself of the seven obsessions, Valerie Mason Jones

How to Free Yourself from the 7 Obsessions

To free ourselves from habitual patterns, says Valerie Mason-John, we need to see how they have become part of our identity.

VALERIE MASON-JOHN
8 MAY 2025


Watch your thoughts; they become habits.
Watch your habits; they become stories.
Watch your stories; they become excuses.
Watch your excuses; they become relapses.
Watch your relapses; they become dis-eases.
Watch your dis-eases; they become vicious cycles.
Watch your vicious cycles; they become your wheel of life.

We meditate to uproot what the Buddhist teachings call samskaras. These are the mental impressions and recollections that have been psychologically imprinted in our minds by early childhood trauma.

We also meditate to loosen what the Buddha called the seven anusayas, which are obsessions or underlying habitual tendencies. If we really want to break deep-rooted habits, every one of us needs to become aware of the obsessions of sensual passion, resistance, views, uncertainty, conceit, ignorance, and the passion of becoming.

Every time we habitually react, the past is present.

Maybe you’ve made a New Year’s resolution again this year, performed rituals, done therapy, or tried plant medicine. But these seven habitual ways of acting out are still dominating your life and causing you misery. Why? Because the anusayas are rooted in ancestral trauma, intergenerational trauma, and epigenetic trauma. They have become part of your identity.

The thoughts that habitually run around in your head are part of your superego: they are giving internal voice to the adults in your past who harmed, hurt, and wounded you. Every time we habitually react, that past is present. It resurfaces.

I used to have a huge reaction if I was waiting for a friend and they were half an hour late. For some of you, someone being half an hour late wouldn’t be a big deal. But once upon a time, waiting for someone put my whole body into a crisis—palpitations, sweats, grinding my teeth. That’s because the memory was still in my body of the six-week-old me who was left somewhere by a mother who never returned. So when someone was late, my body memory was activated and I became deeply distressed.

This habit of reacting was only uprooted when I surrendered the identity of an abandoned six-week-old, and allowed that identity to die, in the painful gap of sadness, rather than habitually turning away from it in my distress. We transcend our habits by allowing a part of our superego to die.

Meditation: Thoughts with No Thinker

Become aware of the body by simply noticing what the body is touching. Notice your clothing and anything else touching the body.

The body produces sensations—it’s what the body does. So become aware of such sensations: heat, tickling, aching, throbbing. itching, pain, and so on. Notice that these sensations are either pleasant, unpleasant, or neutral.

Sensations trigger thoughts, so become aware of thoughts touching the heart–mind. Notice them without identifying with them, without thinking them, and without creating habitual grooves in the brain.

The heart–mind will produce thoughts, because that’s what it does, too. You don’t have to think them. You can be free of stinking thinking and have “thoughts without
a stinker.”

We work with thoughts by inhaling deeply, expanding the breath throughout the body, and then exhaling. Do this several times, and hopefully this will begin to weaken habits.


jueves, 17 de abril de 2025

8 Brocades Qigong Practice



Una version de los ocho brocados de seda en plena calle y sin perder la sonrisa cuando los curiosos miran hacia la cámara y a la joven practicante, que explica las características de cada movimiento y sus efectos positivos sobre los órganos y las emociones. 
Diez años después de esta grabación he visto que las clases ahora se hacen en el interior y siguen siendo muy interesantes. 

viernes, 28 de marzo de 2025

Matthieu Ricard: The Path to a Compassionate Society. Entrevista



Matthieu Ricard is a Buddhist monk who had a promising career in cellular genetics before leaving France thirty-five years ago to study Buddhism in the Himalayas. 

He is an author, translator, and has been a participant in scientific research on the effects that meditation has on the brain. 

Ricard’s work is held high regard in intellectual circles in Europe, and two books he co-authored, The Monk and the Philosopher and The Quantum and the Lotus, are best-sellers in France. He lives in Tibet and Nepal.

lunes, 17 de marzo de 2025

Rides: fini de rire? Christophe André Blog Las arrugas y la risa

Rides : fini de rire ?

 

Les rides, un sujet de psychologie ?

Eh oui ! Pour tout un tas de raisons, dont celle-ci : elles sont très liées à nos émotions. Tout au long de notre vie, leur expression par les mimiques faciales finit par creuser des rides sur notre visage. Cela concerne toutes les émotions.

Qu’elles soient agréables et liées à nos joies, et voici les rides dites « en pattes d’oie », aux commissures extérieures des yeux, ou les « rides du sourire », des deux côtés de la bouche.

Qu’elles soient sombres, ces émotions, et voilà les « rides du lion », qui froncent la peau entre les deux yeux, les « rides de l’amertume » (qui prolongent les commissures des lèvres vers le bas, comme quand on fait la moue), ou encore les « rides du souci » sur le front…

Comme personne n’aime avoir de rides, les médecins plasticiens ont cherché comment les éviter. Avec, par exemple, des piqûres de botox (diminutif de « toxine botulique »), une substance qui entraîne une paralysie des muscles. C’est un toxique à fortes doses, mais à petites doses et en injection locale, elle freine la contraction des muscles du visage.

Ainsi, après une injection, les rides s’atténuent pour quelques semaines, on semble plus jeune, et le tour est joué. Et non seulement l’effet est ponctuel, mais les études montrent aussi que l’usage régulier du botox finit par freiner durablement le vieillissement du visage. Pas mal ! Sauf que…

On s’est aussi aperçu que le botox, en figeant nos visages, figeait peu à peu nos ressentis émotionnels. Pour le meilleur : on ressent moins d’émotions négatives (c’est une piste étudiée dans certains cas de dépression) et pour le pire : on ressent aussi moins d’émotions positives (ce qui est plus ennuyeux pour profiter de la vie).

Autre inconvénient : les études montrent que, si des rides d’expression sont présentes sur nos visages, nos sourires et nos ressentis sont jugés plus spontanés, plus intenses, plus sincères par nos interlocuteurs.

Sans les rides ni mobilité des traits, nos visages paraissent certes plus jeunes, mais pas plus sympathiques ni attractifs. Intéressant, ce dernier point : à quoi bon alors vouloir se rajeunir ?

Bon, pas de morale ici, chacune et chacun fait avec le botox et les rides comme il le souhaite. Mais à côté de la voie du botox, il y a aussi la voie de la sagesse : un peu moins de soleil, un peu moins de tabac (ou mieux : pas du tout), accepter que le temps passe, et choisir ses rides, c’est-à-dire sourire beaucoup et moins ressasser ses soucis !

On va appeler ça la méthode Montaigne, qui écrivait à propos de la vieillesse : « Elle nous attache plus de rides en l’esprit qu’au visage. » Si on s’occupait davantage des rides de notre esprit ? Elles sont peut-être plus importantes pour notre bonheur, finalement, que les rides de notre visage…

 

Illustration : papier ridé mais beau (Abbaye de Belloc, dans le Rouergue)

PS : cette chronique a été publiée à l’origine dans Psychologies Magazine en septembre 2024.

Références :

  • A Novel Test of the Duchenne Marker : Smiles After Botulinum Toxin Treatment for Crow’s Feet Wrinkles. Frontiers in Psychology 2021.
  • Prévention du vieillissement du visage : 5 règles à suivre. Medscape 2019.

Un artículo del psiquiatra francés Christophe André, que trabajó  con pacientes en el hospital Sainte Anne París y que escribe sobre meditación y salud mental, ansiedad, depresión veces solo y otras con amigos con formación en el budismo, como Mathieu Ricard ...y da clases en la universidad de Nanterre, en París. Tiene un programa de radio en el que hace divulgación sobre temas de salud mental y sobre la felicidad como algo posible.  
Aquí el tema que elige comentar es  el miedo a las arrugas...el Botox, la sabiduría para fumar menos, tomar menos el sol, aceptar que el tiempo pasa y sonreír mucho y la cita final de Montaigne sobre "la vejez que nos pone más arrugas en el espíritu que en la cara"
. Ocuparse de ellas quizá sea más importante para nuestra felicidad que de las arrugas de nuestra cara...

martes, 18 de febrero de 2025

Peaceful living, Mary Mackenzie Mejorar las relaciones como objetivo primario

from Peaceful Living
by Mary Mackenzie

I am not easily frightened. Not because I am brave but because I know that I am dealing with human beings and that I must try as hard as I can to understand everything that anyone ever does.
–Etty Hillesum in Etty: A Diary 1941–1943

Day 4: Improving Relationships as a Primary Goal

Nonviolent Communication suggests that improving the quality of our relationships is a primary goal. Indeed, that connection with ourselves and other people takes a higher priority than being right, winning, making more money or looking good to other people. If you focus on improving the quality of your relationships through deeper connections, you will improve the state of your life, enhance the peace and love in your life, and feel better about yourself.

I learned this through personal experience. I worked from time to time with a business colleague. Over the years, our relationship deteriorated to the point where we had no civil connections with each other. Our association was worst just as I was starting to look at how I contributed to the angst in my relationships. As a result, I started to focus more on my connections with people rather than trying to be right or to win arguments.

Within a remarkably short time, my colleague was telling me how much she admired the change I was making and how much she enjoyed her relationship with me. We both expressed our sadness for our earlier behaviors. Today, we are close colleagues who work together in a variety of projects and easily call each other a friend.

When you shift your focus to valuing your connection with other people, you improve the quality of your life and your relationships. Everyone who crosses your path will benefit from this shift of focus. It is inevitable.

Be aware today of the times when your priority is to win or to be right rather than to connect, then shift your focus to connection with others.


Un ejemplo de la aplicación de la Comunicación no violenta en la vida diaria, básicamente concentrarse más en la conexión con los otros que en tener razón o "ganar" una discusión.  

jueves, 28 de abril de 2022

Effortless effort. Relaxing without trying hard. Leo Babauta

Effortless Effort: Relaxing While Trying Hard

BY LEO BABAUTA

I’ve noticed that a lot of us will be pretty wiped out at the end of a long day of work or social activity, to the point where we need time to recuperate from exhaustion. There’s nothing wrong with that, but let’s talk about the possibility of doing hard things without exhausting ourselves.

We might call it Effortless Effort (similar to “wu wei” in Daoism) — the idea of acting without a huge amount of tension or extraneous physical effort.

When you talk to someone about “trying hard,” they usually will put a lot of energy into something, and quickly exhaust themselves. “Trying hard” is equated to being very tense, pushing hard with your body and mind, and putting everything you have into it.

If you talk to someone about “relaxing,” they will usually think of that as the opposite of “trying hard.” They think of lying on the couch, muscles relaxed, not doing anything. “Relaxing” is equated with “laziness” for a lot of people.

So “trying hard” and “relaxing” are seen as two opposite things.

What would it be like to try hard while relaxing?

An Experiment

Try this experiment: Relax the muscles of your torso, neck, jaw, head … so that you’re sitting upright but relaxed. Now read a few sentences of this article, while keeping that upright relaxed posture. Breathe easy, feel peaceful, while reading.

Notice what it’s like to give focus to the reading, while not tensing up. While remaining peaceful and relaxed.

Now try it while drinking a glass of water, or walking around the room. Upright and relaxed, doing things without spending more effort than is needed.

Practicing & Adjusting

We can practice in meditation as well — can you have a relaxed upright posture and keep your focus on the present moment, without straining? Can you rest your attention gently on one spot, not forcing the attention but just resting it?

This is the essence of effort without extra effort. Giving something your focus without spending all your energy. Moving without too much tension.

Of course, it takes some tension to move — otherwise you’d collapse on the floor in a puddle. We need to spend some energy to move around a room, or to sit upright. But we don’t need to spend more than the minimum required. It’s like spending what you need for food, without needing to splurge on every bite.

Sometimes a lot of energy is required. And if so, you try hard with that burst of energy. Just what’s needed. And then go back to relaxed upright posture, without needing to spend more.

You can practice all day, if you keep “effortless effort” in mind. You can cook, wash dishes, talk to people, answer email, without needing to be tensed all the time, without needing to exhaust yourself. Notice if your torso is tensed up, your jaw clenched, your temples tight. Then relax.

Notice what it’s like to spend just what’s needed, and not everything.

Un pequeño experimento sobre la cantidad de esfuerzo suficiente para realizar muchas de nuestras actividades diarias sin añadir una tensión innecesaria. El rendimiento es mejor y el cansancio después de nuestro trabajo o nuestras tareas diarias habituales es mucho menor. 

La simple relajación de los músculos de la cabeza, el torso, el cuello, la mandíbula manteniendo una postura relajada pero bien alineada y sin tensión cambia nuestra capacidad de movernos, atender, pensar, actuar..

Tiene que ver con el esfuerzo sin esfuerzo del que hablan los taoístas, con la presencia plena, con la atención en lo que tenemos entre manos dejando a un lado otras preocupaciones y ansiedades...

 

sábado, 24 de octubre de 2020

The joy of self care, by Cindy Lee


In the buddhist newsletter of Lions Roar appears this article by a yoga and meditator teacher that presents a very calming a way to take care of ourselves in this strange and complicated moments. 







https://www.lionsroar.com/the-joy-of-self-caring/?goal=0_1988ee44b2-36f0bb149c-22764337&mc_cid=36f0bb149c&mc_eid=cc0f3c421f 

sábado, 18 de abril de 2020

Living on the edge . Joan Halifax


Este artículo es una adaptación del libro de Joan Halifax,  Standing on the edge que ha publicado la revista  Lions Roar recientemente como respuesta a la pandemia global.

En castellano sería algo así como "De pie sobre el límite" y habla de la posibilidad de crecer y encontrar libertad donde se encuentran el miedo y el valor.

De superar la sensación de futilidad que invade a muchos de los que practican el altruismo, la empatía, el respeto, el compromiso, la integridad en situaciones que dejan poco lugar para la esperanza.


Edge States
Over the years, I slowly became aware of five internal and interpersonal qualities that are keys to a compassionate and courageous life, and without which we cannot serve, nor can we survive. Yet if these precious resources deteriorate, they can manifest as dangerous landscapes that cause harm. I called these bivalent qualities Edge States.
We can lose our firm footing on the high edge of any of these qualities and slide into a mire of suffering.
The Edge States are altruism, empathy, integrity, respect, and engagement, assets of a mind and heart that exemplify caring, connection, virtue, and strength. Yet we can also lose our firm footing on the high edge of any of these qualities and slide into a mire of suffering where we find ourselves caught in the toxic and chaotic waters of the harmful aspects of an Edge State.
Altruism can turn into pathological altruism. Selfless actions in service to others are essential to the well-being of society and the natural world. But sometimes, our seemingly altruistic acts harm us, harm those whom we are trying to serve, or harm the institutions we serve in.
Empathy can slide into empathic distress. When we are able to sense into the suffering of another person, empathy brings us closer to one another, can inspire us to serve, and expands our understanding of the world. But if we take on too much of the suffering of another, and identify too intensely with it, we may become damaged and unable to act.
Integrity points to having strong moral principles. But when we engage in or witness acts that violate our sense of integrity, justice, or beneficence, moral suffering can be the outcome.
Respect is a way we hold beings and things in high regard. Respect can disappear into the swamp of toxic disrespect, when we go against the grain of values and principles of civility, and disparage others or ourselves.
Engagement in our work can give a sense of purpose and meaning to our lives, particularly if our work serves others. But overwork, a poisonous workplace, and the experience of the lack of efficacy can lead to burnout, which can cause physical and psychological collapse.
Even in their degraded forms, Edge States can teach and strengthen us, just as bone and muscle are strengthened when exposed to stress, or if broken or torn, can heal in the right circumstances.

sábado, 4 de abril de 2020

Lincoln in the bardo is not your usual ghost story. Interview to Georges Saunders








Una entrevista al escritor George Saunders, autor de una novela sobre la muerte a los 11 años de Willie, hijo del presidente Abraham Lincoln. 

El autor rememora la idea inicial de aquella pérdida repentina y del padre desolado con el cuerpo de su hijo sobre sus rodillas. Una imagen que recordaba vagamente a la Pietá. 

Aunque la palabra Bardo para los budistas sería algo parecido al Purgatorio católico, Saunders afirma que quiso hacer algo así como la coincidencia de dos mundos, el de los vivos y el de los que aún siguen como presencias fantasmales junto a la cripta del niño y observan y hablan del dolor del padre que vuelve allí en repetidas ocasiones, incapaz de aceptar lo que ha sucedido. 

El verano pasado, leí en el diario EL País una crítica sensible y original sobre la versión castellana del libro, leído en los días de calor en Madrid. 

Han pasado unos meses pero parecen siglos y el recuerdo de la historia sigue siendo misterioso y a ratos cómico, otras sorprendente y a ratos triste. Como nuestras vidas. 


sábado, 21 de marzo de 2020

And the people stayed home. Y la gente se quedó en casa. Kitty O´Meara




So many choices lie before each of us in the time of pandemic: practical, challenging, and agonizing choices. Our medical professionals are already overtaxed. Let’s be responsible and take what burdens we can from their shoulders.

IN THE TIME OF PANDEMIC


And the people stayed home. And they read books, and listened, and rested, and exercised, and made art, and played games, and learned new ways of being, and were still. And they listened more deeply. Some meditated, some prayed, some danced. Some met their shadows. And the people began to think differently.
And the people healed. And, in the absence of people living in ignorant, dangerous, mindless, and heartless ways, the earth began to heal.
And when the danger passed, and the people joined together again, they grieved their losses, and made new choices, and dreamed new images, and created new ways to live, and they healed the earth fully, as they had been healed.
https://the-daily-round.com/2020/03/16/in-the-time-of-pandemic/#comments







“Y la gente se quedó en casa. Y leía libros y escuchaba. Y descansaba y hacía ejercicio. Y creaba arte y jugaba. Y aprendía nuevas formas de ser, de estar quieto. Y se detenía. Y escuchaba más profundamente. Algunos meditaban. Algunos rezaban. Alguno bailaban. Algunos hallaron sus sombras. Y la gente empezó a pensar de forma diferente.
Y la gente sanó. Y, en ausencia de personas que viven en la ignorancia y el peligro, sin sentido y sin corazón, la Tierra comenzó a sanar.
Y cuando pasó el peligro, y la gente se unió de nuevo, lamentaron sus pérdidas, tomaron nuevas decisiones, soñaron nuevas imágenes, crearon nuevas formas de vivir y curaron la tierra por completo, tal y como ellos habían sido curados".




martes, 11 de febrero de 2020

Growing together. Two gardens. Mindful relationships by Thitch Nhat Hahnh

La revista Lions Roar publica un extracto del libro Mindful relationships de Thitch Nhat Hahnh en el que las relaciones de pareja e incluso las de amistad  se comparan al cuidado de dos jardines, el propio y el de la otra persona.

El cultivar ls semillas de la  comprensión, el amor, la paz, la compasión en vez del miedo, los celos o la rabia lo facilita la energía de la presencia plena a lo largo del día, cuando caminamos, comemos, trabajamos, cocinamos, en vez de buscar siempre distracciones que nos alejen de emociones y sentimientos negativos.






                                   

                                 Ilustración Otta Olson. Herbarios imaginarios. UCM 2020



https://www.lionsroar.com/growing-together/?mc_cid=cb02745f6d&mc_eid=cc0f3c421f





 

sábado, 9 de noviembre de 2019

Mindfulness and psychotherapy Tara Bennet Goleman






Mindfulness has its roots in an ancient system of Buddhist psychology, little known in the West, one that even today offers a sophisticated understanding of the painful emotions that sabotage our happiness. This psychology offers a scientific approach to inner work, a theory of mind that anyone, Buddhist or not, can draw insights and benefit from. When we apply this approach, the emphasis is not so much on the problems in our lives as on connecting with the clarity and health of mind itself. If we can do this, our problems become more workable. They become opportunities to learn rather than threats to avoid.
Buddhist psychology holds a refreshingly positive view of human nature: our emotional problems are seen as temporary and superficial. The emphasis is on what is right with us, an antidote to the fixation of Western psychology on what’s wrong with us. Buddhist psychology acknowledges our disturbing emotions but sees them as covering our essential goodness like clouds covering the sun. In this sense, our darker moments and most upsetting feelings are an opportunity for uncovering our natural wisdom, if we choose to use them that way.
Becoming aware of these emotional habits is the first step, because unless we can catch and challenge them as they are triggered by the events of our lives, they will dictate how we perceive and react. And the more they take us over, the more they’ll keep coming back, complicating our relationships, our work, and the most basic ways in which we see ourselves.
Schema therapy was developed by Dr. Jeffrey Young, the founder of the Cognitive Therapy Center of New York. It focuses on healing maladaptive patterns, or schemas, like the sense of emotional deprivation, or relentless perfectionism. In working with my own clients, I have found that mindfulness meditation and schema therapy work together naturally and powerfully.
Schema therapy gives us a clear map to destructive habits. It details the emotional contours of, say, the fear of abandonment, with its constant apprehension that a partner will leave us; or of feelings of vulnerability, such as the irrational fear that a minor setback at work means you will end up jobless and homeless.
There are ten such major schemas (and countless variations); most of us have one or two principal ones, though many of us have several others to some extent. Other common schemas include unlovability, the fear that people would reject us if they truly knew us; mistrust, the constant suspicion that those close to us will betray us; social exclusion, the feeling that we don’t belong; failure, the sense that we cannot succeed at what we do; subjugation, always giving in to other people’s wants and demands; and entitlement, the sense that one is somehow special, and so beyond ordinary rules and limits.
Through working with my clients, it has become clear to me that adding mindfulness to psychotherapy greatly enhances its effectiveness, helping clients see the otherwise invisible emotional patterns at the root of their suffering. I have been struck by how much the therapy process was accelerated when a client practiced mindfulness. I have found that combining a mindful awareness with psychological investigation forges a powerful tool for cultivating emotional wisdom on a practical, day-to-day level.
Mindfulness is synergistic with virtually any psychotherapy approach, not just schema therapy. If you are in psychotherapy, mindfulness offers a way to cultivate a capacity for self-observation that you can bring to whatever confronts you during the day. Combining mindfulness with psychotherapy may help you use more fully the opportunity for inner exploration that your therapy offers.

jueves, 10 de octubre de 2019

Lion´s Roar. Two minute meditations for anytime, anywhere


Two-Minute Meditations for Anytime, Anywhere

Life is busy. Here’s a selection of quick meditations to work with emotional distress and foster mindfulness when time is scarce.

Meditation is about relaxing with the truth. When we sit in that vulnerability, we can get in touch with our thoughts, emotions, and body. However, even the most experienced meditators can get uncomfortable or find themselves short on time. And that’s okay. The goal in meditation isn’t to “fix” ourselves, but rather to see ourselves as we are. Ponlop Rinpoche has written:
“If we have only five minutes to meditate, we tell ourselves, ‘Oh, five minutes is nothing. It is not enough to change my life. I need to practice for at least an hour.’ … That is a very convincing logic at the time. However… If you take that five minutes to meditate… then you are acclimating yourself to the practice of bringing mindfulness and awareness into ordinary moments of your life.”
Below you’ll find a sampling of short meditation instructions to help you cultivate moments of awareness in everyday life. Click on each one to read a full instruction. And, if you’re looking for something deeper, see our more in-depth guides to meditation or retreat practice.

Goodwill

“Goodwill is so often the best place to start,” says Thanissaro Bhikkhu.

We can start each day with a sense of goodness and kindness for ourselves and others. To do this, Thanissaro Bhikkhu suggests offering thoughts of goodwill to yourself, then spreading your thoughts outward to people you love, people you like, people you feel neutral toward, and finally people you don’t like.
May you be happy.May you be free from stress and pain.May you be free from animosity, free from trouble, free from oppression.May you look after yourself with ease.

Emotional Awareness

The late Ken Jones said, “The essence of emotional awareness practice is to become intimately aware of how the pain feels in the body.”

As a Buddhist activist, Jones shared a practice that shines light on difficulty, affliction, and pain. He suggests that we think of something difficult, hold it close, and then ask the following questions:
How have I responded to this affliction?How has my response brought suffering?What does this affliction ask me to let go of?Why am I having difficulties becoming aware of my emotional response to this affliction?

Coming Back to Now

“The mind can go and go without us noticing how fast it’s going, or what direction it’s headed in,” says Buddhist practitioner Leslie Davis.

To calm monkey mind, Davis asks these three questions to re-establish herself in the present:
Where am I? (Stop moving and look around)What am I doing? (Observe your actions with no judgment)Who am I with? (Notice who is with you and re-establish the connection)

Loving-Kindness

Charles Suhor practices connectedness meditation with a prayer.

It’s a litany he extends to sentient beings, plant life, inanimate beings, and all unknown forms. Here are a few lines:
I am connected with those I see casually and in passing.May we be at peace.I am connected with those who have angered me and I have angered.May we be at peace.I am connected with all humanity, dead and living and unborn.May we be at peace.

Pause

Pema Chödrön offers a simple technique we can use anytime we need a break from our habitual patterns.

Pause practice creates an opportunity for the mind to relax and drop the storyline it works so hard to maintain. Pema says it can help us step outside of our cocoon to receive the magic of our surroundings and be with the immediacy of our experience.
Take three conscious breaths.Pause.Let it be like popping a bubble.Let it be a contrast to being caught up, and then go on.

Compassion for Others

Thupten Jinpa starts this meditation by contemplating the various ways we benefit from others.

By reflecting on the deeply interconnected nature of all things, he says we can remember that others’ presence gives meaning to our existence.
Allow your heart to open.Abide in a state of appreciation and gratitude.Acknowledge that everyone feels happy when others wish them well.Rejoice in others’ happiness. Feel concern for their pain and sorrow.Once again, rejoice with others’ happiness and connect with their pain.

Self-Acceptance

Susan Piver shares a practice for loving all of your imperfections and contradictions.

Piver focuses on all of the fascinating, beautiful, and difficult pieces of herself, offering loving-kindness to every aspect of her being.
Offer loving-kindness to the “you” in the mirror.Imagine yourself as a beloved. See the parts of you that you love. Offer loving-kindness.Imagine yourself as your most important teacher. See the parts of you that are wise. Offer loving-kindness.Imagine yourself as a stranger. Acknowledge the parts of you that you can’t see. Offer loving-kindness.Imagine yourself as an enemy. See the parts of you that are fragile and wounded. Offer loving-kindness.

Self-Compassion

Kristin Neff suggests a three-step contemplation to sow kindness for ourselves.

This can be a useful tool to soothe and calm the mind. To get started, Neff places both hands on her heart to feel their warmth, breathes deeply, and then speaks these words in a caring tone:
This is a moment of suffering.Suffering is a part of life.May I be kind to myself in this moment.May I give myself the compassion I need.

Interconnectedness

“Your body is part of the world happening, and the world is part of your body continuing,” says Sylvia Boorstein.

Boorstein uses this meditation to remember that her body is part of the world and her life is part of all life. There is no separate and enduring self.
Close your eyes.Allow your breath to come and go on its own.Acknowledge that while you cannot feel the carbon dioxide you exhale or the oxygen you inhale, they are both present.Acknowledge that the green life in the world is breathing your carbon dioxide and releasing oxygen.
The green world and your lungs keep each other alive.

Drop In

To cultivate clarity and calm, Tsoknyi Rinpoche suggests the practice of dropping into our feelings.

This can be a useful tool to reconnect with whatever is arising in the mind and body.
Relax deeply. Don’t hold onto anything.
Raise your arms to shoulder height, then drop them to your knees. 
Wherever you land, just let it be.
Feel what sensations arise and be aware of them.




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